To not get what you want is Suffering.
To get what you don’t want is Suffering.
To get what you do want is also Suffering because everything is ultimately consumed by the churning of Time, and what we want to get, even if we do get it, is eventually lost.
Yin and Yang make measure of each other.
Yin and Yang follow one another.
Any Thing, Experience, Phenomenon is neither Good nor Bad inherently except to the extent that you realize it is precisely as Good as it is Bad.
It Is Both.
It Is Neither.